Tuesday Slice: A new nest

The dialogue began months ago.  They both want to come back when her contract is up.  They've been looking at the immigration process.  It's long, and the authorities do look into everything.  It's a little easier if they're married, but they don't want to do it so close to leaving that it looks like it's a marriage of convenience, just for a green card.

Do what you need to, we told her.  This is your relationship, your decision.  We have no expectations of ceremony or circumstance.  We love and support you, whatever the course of action.

But what about the family, she added.  We reassured her:  don't worry about others' reactions or expectations.  If we have to, we'll help negotiate any negativity that arises.  Again, it's your happiness, your plans that matter.

The plans simmered for a bit...and then an apologetic text, a month or so ago.  I was in a WalMart parking lot when I received it.  She was sorry for letting us know via text, but they had set a date.  I'll text when I get home, I wrote back.  There's a lot to think about.

A flurry of excited messages ensued.  We went back and forth a few times over whether we should fly over, but ultimately decided not to go.  This was just a civil ceremony, after all, a signing of a piece of paper.  No justice of the peace, no vows.  We would save our money for a celebration here in Texas over the holidays, when they will both visit.

We put together a wedding box of something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.  I sent pictures of dress ideas, she sent pictures of dresses she purchased, finally choosing one in ivory lace.  She used her media skills to make a digital announcement, sent to family and friends the weekend before.

Then, just like that, the day was upon us.  Actually night, here in Texas, fourteen hours behind Japan.  We got before-signing pictures, texts that the process was happening, texts that it was over.  They were married, and happy, and excited to start this new chapter of their lives together.  They just glow in the after-signing pictures.

Our oldest fledgling has begun making her own nest.  
Introducing Mr. and Mrs. Shirakawa.  We can't wait to celebrate with them!